🙅♀️ How to Deal With Guilt After Saying No
– Setting boundaries without carrying emotional debt – You finally said no. You set the boundary. You protected your time, your energy, your peace. And yet… You feel anxious You replay the moment in your head You wonder, “Was I too harsh?” You feel like you disappointed someone That heavy, sinking feeling? That’s boundary guilt . And it’s more common than you think. 😔 Why Do We Feel Guilty After Saying No? We were raised to be agreeable, generous, and self-sacrificing We associate “no” with rejection, not self-respect We fear being seen as rude, cold, or difficult We’ve learned that other people’s comfort matters more than our own But let’s be clear: Saying no isn’t wrong. Feeling guilty doesn’t mean you did something wrong. 🛠️ How to Work Through the Guilt 1. Name the Guilt – Don’t Fight It Say it out loud: “I feel guilty because I care — not because I did something wrong.” This separates emotion from fact . Guilt is a signal , not a ve...