🧠 How to Stop Taking Things Personally
– Detach your self-worth from other people’s behavior – Someone cancels plans last minute. Your boss gives short feedback. A friend reads your message… and doesn’t reply. And just like that, your mind goes: “Did I do something wrong?” “Are they mad at me?” “I must’ve messed up somehow.” If this spiral feels familiar, you’re not alone. Taking things personally is emotional Velcro — everything sticks to you. Let’s learn how to unhook. 🤔 Why Do We Take Things So Personally? We link our worth to others’ approval We’ve experienced rejection in the past We’re hyper-attuned to tone, silence, and withdrawal We assume we’re the cause of discomfort — even when we’re not But here’s the truth: Most of what others do is about them , not you. 🛠️ 4 Tools to Stop Internalizing Everything 1. Ask: “What Else Could Be True?” When your mind fills in the blanks with negativity, pause. Instead of: “They’re ignoring me because I’m annoying.” Try: “Maybe the...