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🧠 How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Mean

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– How to protect your energy without guilt – We often associate setting boundaries with being cold, rude, or “too much.” But the truth is, boundaries aren't walls — they’re bridges to healthier relationships. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, or felt guilty for needing space, this post is for you. 💡 What Are Emotional Boundaries (And Why They Matter)? Boundaries are the invisible lines that separate your emotional space from others. They protect your energy, time, and mental peace. Without boundaries, you might… Constantly feel drained after social interactions Say yes out of fear, not desire Feel resentment toward people you actually care about Healthy boundaries say: “I care about you and I care about me.” 😰 Why We Feel Mean for Having Boundaries Here’s the internal script many of us grew up with: “If I say no, they’ll think I’m selfish.” “If I ask for space, I’m being dramatic.” “If I don’t give 100%, I’m letting people down.” These beliefs ...