🧠 How to Self-Soothe When You’re Triggered
– What to do when your emotions hijack your body – You’re having a conversation, and suddenly your chest tightens. Your stomach drops. You can't think straight. Maybe you freeze. Maybe you lash out. You’ve been triggered — and it’s not your fault. But it is your job to take care of what happens next. Let’s talk about how. 🚨 What Is a Trigger, Really? A trigger is anything — a word, tone, memory, or moment — that makes your brain feel like it’s in danger, even if you’re actually safe. Common triggers: Feeling ignored or dismissed Someone raising their voice Being told “You’re overreacting” Rejection or abandonment cues Your nervous system doesn’t distinguish emotional threats from physical ones. That’s why the response is so intense — it’s survival mode. 🧘 Step 1: Notice the Signal Before your thoughts spiral, catch the physical cue: Is your breathing shallow? Is your heart racing? Are you clenching your jaw or fists? Do you suddenly fee...